What is aftercare? Why checking in after sex or a scene matters, in kink and beyond.
Aftercare is the emotional and physical check-in after sex or a scene, especially anything intense — cuddling and talking, or water, snacks, and reassurance, whatever helps both people feel grounded again. It's not just for kink; it's good practice any time sex left someone feeling emotionally exposed. A partner who's dismissive when you ask for it is worth paying attention to.
