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Health

Is everything okay... Down below?

From pH balance to infections, sexual health expert Dr Claire Pickett from Stigma Health ups the ante on your vaginal literacy.

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Health

All about... Female condoms

September 16 is Global Female Condom Day, so let's get up close and personal with this clever contraceptive device.

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Community

Do we really need another season of Love Is Blind?

Is Love Is Blind still an intriguing “social experiment” or is it actually a bad idea that should bow out before it causes more than just public heartbreak?

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Wellbeing

Sex anxiety and how to deal

Does the thought of having sex freak you out? Or do you get close to doing the deed and then panic? Or do you overthink things and talk yourself out of it well before you've got a chance to begin? Maybe this will help.

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Health

Let's bust some booty myths

Our resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) clears up some of the biggest misconceptions about anal sex so you an explore with confidence.

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The HUD Love Club

Top 10 pickup lines from Sabrina Carpenter's latest album

We wanna try out her fuzzy pink handcuffs, and so will you. Here are our picks of lyrics that double as sensational pick-up lines to try with your next date.

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Desires

Outercourse

Have you ever heard of "outercourse"? Keep your pants on (literally) and learn the nuances of clothed intimacy.

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Dating

Do you talk that way in real life?

Maybe your potty mouth is putting off your potential matches, ever think of that?

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Health

Let's talk about PrEP and PEP, baby

What are PrEP and PEP, and how can they help prevent the spread of HIV? Our friends at Stigma Health have the info on how to protect yourself and reduce your risk of getting HIV by 99%.

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The HUD Love Club

In our demure dating era

Maybe you need to tap into your demure, modest, mindful, cutesy side when you're looking for a match.

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The HUD Love Club

Hi, I'm the problem. It's me.

What's holding you back from enjoying your dating life? You might need to just get out of your own way. Here's how.

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Desires

It's Anal August! Your beginner's guide to anal play

Whether you’re new to the idea or looking to expand your sexual repertoire, HUD’s resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) has advice for how to explore anal play safely and pleasurably.

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The HUD Love Club

It's National Orgasm Day! So let's talk about the orgasm gap

Did you know that men are twice as likely to have an orgasm during sex than women? Here's what we can do about the orgasm gap.

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Community

Even more you didn't know (until now) about sex and the Olympics

We've got the goss from the Athletes' Village - clearly this is a topic that's going to outlast the Olympic Games themselves.

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Dating

Should you sleep with your roommate?

You're crushin' on your roomie and the feeling seems mutual... But should you go there? What could happen if you become friends with benefits while you're living in the same space? Let's look at the pros and cons.

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Book review: Otherhood - Essays on being childless, childfree and child-adjacent

When you're dating, you're probably thinking mostly about how *not* to have kids, which is fair enough. What if you never have kids? Like, never ever? This new book explores the societal taboo of adulthood without children.

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Community

A brief history of sex and the Olympics

With more than 10,000 fit, good-looking, top-of-their-game-in-every-way athletes gathering in Paris for the 2024 Summer Olympics, is it any wonder the Athletes' Village is a hotbed of hookups and sexy celebrations?

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Dating

Top tips to up your game on - and beyond - the dating apps

HUD's resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) gives some good advice for improving your UX on dating apps and when you're meeting people in real life.

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The HUD Love Club

The Dying Art of Playlist Building

When's the last time someone made you a mixtape? (Possibly a rhetorical question since actual tapes no longer seem to exist.) Kira Carrington of Massive magazine gets nostalgic about playlists.

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Dating

When is it okay to swear in front of your date?

Swearing, cursing, using foul language, dropping F-bombs in your date's presence - how soon is too soon?

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Dating

Dealing with a messy breakup... When you have to work

Navigating a breakup is never easy, especially when it's unfolding against the backdrop of your professional life. HUD's People & Culture Manager Stef shares some good advice.

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Dating

How to spot weaponized incompetence in someone you're dating

Are you carrying more than your share of relationship responsibility because the other person just isn't good at this sort of thing? You might be dealing with a case of weaponized incompetence.

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The HUD Love Club

Why are we attracted to some people but not others?

You see someone across a crowded room, and you're instantly attracted to them. What's that all about? Our Good Girls Mikayla and Siobhan explain the science of attraction.

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Community

Finding Pride, losing it, then finding it again

How do you celebrate Pride when you’re still navigating what it means to you? HUD App’s Director of Marketing, Mikayla Robinson, gets honest about Pride.

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Dating

What does it mean if my pet doesn't like my date?

If your pet cat is hissing, your dog is growling, and your goldfish is swimming in the other direction every time the person you're dating is around, you should probably pay attention.

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Dating

10 tips for dating as a neurodivergent human

If you're neurodivergent, you might feel like dating is just too confusing and intimidating to even attempt. Here are some tips to help you feel more comfortable looking for love.

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The HUD Love Club

The V word

Guess what? You don't owe anybody your virginity. It's not a gift, a precious treasure, something you can "lose", or anything to do with your character. So what's the big deal about virginity?

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Community

Pride parade prep guide

HUD's resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) tells you what to wear, bring, and expect for your first Pride parade.

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Health

5 Myths and facts about LGBTQIA+ Sexual Health

Our friends at Stigma Health debunk some myths and speak some truths about LGBTQIA+ sexual health - some of which might surprise you.

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Dating

Should you use AI to write your dating app profile?

AI is everywhere, but should it be a part of your dating app profile? Is it lying if you let AI tell you what to say, or are you just using another handy tool?

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Desires

Designing our dream sex toy

Our Good Girls write an open letter to the sex toy industry asking for all of our ideal sex toy dreams to come true.

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The HUD Love Club

Boundaries and why you need them

Just because you're into casual, no-strings-attached dating doesn't mean you don't have boundaries. Here's why you should figure out what those boundaries are and be unapologetic about them.

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Dating

What dating was like in the 90s and what we can learn from it

The fashions may be coming back, but let's hope some of the dating trends of the 90s stay put in the past. Although there are a few things we'd like to resurrect...

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Desires

How to: Recreate *that* Bridgerton carriage ride scene in real life

We studied the famous carriage encounter between Colin and Penelope in meticulous, precise, thorough detail, just for the sake of educating you about how to DIY it.

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The HUD Love Club

Get to know yourself this May

Did you know that this month is known as Masturbation May? It might seem silly, but this international celebration of self-pleasure has some pretty radical origins.

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Dating

Things that give you the "ick" (and how to deal)

What do TikTok and Baby Reindeer have in common? A deep and uncomfortable dive into "the ick", that indefinable feeling which we've all felt from time to time about a person or scenario. That niggly feeling of "I don't like this, and I can't say why."

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Desires

Fetish 101: What's wax play?

Ever dipped your fingers in warm candle wax and thought, "Ahh, that's quite nice!" Take things a step further with wax play - here's how to indulge safely.

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Dating

How to: Write the perfect dating app profile

HUD's resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) gives her top six tips for writing a dating profile that'll get you seen.

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The HUD Love Club

Beginner's guide to sex toys

Let's talk about sex toys, baby! Here's how to get started and choose what's right for you.

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Health

Why you need to talk to your grandparents about STIs

When you're visiting your grands at their retirement village this weekend, you might want to bring up sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Our friends at Stigma Health explain why.

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Dating

Workplace hookups: Yay or nay?

Should you ever date someone from work? HUD App’s People & Culture Manager Stef has some good advice.

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Dating

What your zombie apocalypse plan says about your dating personality

How you'd deal with hordes of the undead says a lot about how you might approach your dating life - and may reveal some things you didn't know about yourself.

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Dating

How to: Hook up at a festival

A music fest is the perfect place for a casual date. Here are three quick tips for making the most of the opportunity.

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The HUD Love Club

Figuring out what you're into in the bedroom

What you find kinky is subjective, but we guarantee that more people are doing interesting (ahem) things in the bedroom than you might realize. Here's how to figure out what you're into.

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Dating

Mind your manners when you're online messaging

Five tips for improving how you come across in someone's DMs.

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Dating

6 things to do before a first date

"Be prepared" is a motto that'll set you up for a good time.

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Health

Educate yourself about STIs

Our friends at Stigma Health tell you everything you need to know – but were too afraid to ask – about Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs).

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Dating

Coffee, commute, connections

Why your morning commute is the perfect time to suss out your next hookup.

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The HUD Love Club

How the hell do you make friends as an adult?

Post-school and in the real world, how do you actually meet people to hang out with?

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Desires

Fetish 101: What's a foot fetish?

People make jokes about selling foot pics on the internet, but honestly, foot fetish isn’t that uncommon – or even that unusual of a fetish. Here’s the lowdown on foot fetish.

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Dating

Hey, who are you calling "slut"?

HUD’s resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) says it's time to shut down the shame that comes with being called a slut.

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Dating

Three key ingredients for a good date

Do you give up on dates before you've even finished your first drink? This might help.

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Dating

Help! I've caught feels for my FWB

What to do when you've developed feelings for your friend with benefits.

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Safety

8 ways to stay safe when you’re meeting someone in person

Staying safe online and in person is critical – and should be your first priority.

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Dating

Why women should date like men

Yes, how women and men approach dating is different – here's how women can level the playing field.

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The HUD Love Club

Valentine's Day: A day of love, not just lovers

This Valentine's Day, let's challenge the conventional. Let's celebrate the love that exists within every facet of our lives.

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Dating

The art of a no-strings-attached Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day often conjures up images of serious commitments, grand romantic gestures, and the pressure to define relationships. But what if we told you that Valentine's Day could be equally meaningful and enjoyable without the weight of expectations?

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Dating

I'm single and I'm fine, thanks

Is it ever appropriate to question why someone is single, then immediately try to fix them up with a date?

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